Not to be outdone.....

I was 14 by the way, and it was absolute agony and totally horrible....not what I had imagined at all. :sad:

I was 17. It was okay. She was 27 and knew how to put me at my ease, and it got a lot better pretty quickly. :)

LOL, these polls are getting more and more personal. :shocking:

Where's 'Not Yet'?

:laugh:

who are the other two tarts at 14?!?! lol!

I was about three weeks off my 16th birthday and desparate to get rid of my virginity before I hit 16 ... I was so cool!!! (not!)

I was 17, in the flat above a post office:w00t:

who are the other two tarts at 14?!?! lol!

I was about three weeks off my 16th birthday and desparate to get rid of my virginity before I hit 16 ... I was so cool!!! (not!)

Erm........ :blush:

I was 14 and has to be one of the most disappointing events of my life.

I was 16, nearly 17 it was with a steady boyfriend and was alright I would say...nothing special. It was more of a relief as I was one of the last of my friends to do it and they used to chatter on presuming I had and I used to get very embarassed.

Nearly 17 on a sand dune in Weston Super Mare, on a trip with some college friends. He was 21 and absolutely gorgeous. One of the few blondes I have ever fancied.

I was 15 and he was 16. His parents were away on holiday and we did it in their bed!! Then we had to wash and dry the sheets :blush:

But how was it Patsy and C - a relief, a let down or great?

I have never met a woman who enjoyed the first time but I am open to persuasion.

Just 16 for me, with my 1st love! It was a real let down and I bled for hours afterwards :cry:

Oh God the blood, I remember that too. :sick: What an absolutely horrible experience. I remember thinking, and some people do this out of choice??!!

But how was it Patsy and C - a relief, a let down or great?

I have never met a woman who enjoyed the first time but I am open to persuasion.


It was a let down as I felt no pleasure whatsoever, except the fact that the guy was a demi God and picked me! I was so grateful in those days. The pain was intense and, as you say, the blood..........

But how was it Patsy and C - a relief, a let down or great?

I have never met a woman who enjoyed the first time but I am open to persuasion.

I just remember it being more about the mechanics of getting the deed done rather than any pleasure. We'd had a furtive bungled attempt before with his parents in the other room (I can't believe it now :ohmy: ). I have to say that although he was a skinny boy he was extremely well endowed.

I'd led a sheltered life and the last one I had seen was my baby brother's. I admit to thinking that he was some kind of freak the first time I saw it. I also didn't know that men had pubic hair, I thought that was just a "girl" thing :blush:

I was 16 but had the occasion arisen when I was a lot younger I would've jumped at the chance. I was such a horrible, horny little boy. :naughty:

im not sure if i voted, said id already voted!! but for all you nosy parkers, i was a late developer and did it at 17. guy was a freak and i shouldve said no. oh well. onwards and upwards.

I was 17 and it was that impressive that I have no recollection apart from the mess....but jaysus I have made up for it since :naughty:

I was 16 but had the occasion arisen when I was a lot younger I would've jumped at the chance. I was such a horrible, horny little boy.
..and the horrible horny boy yurned into a ......... :bye:


Sorry cat, I tried to quote this and ended up hitting the edit button, PJ.

I want to know who the two tarts are who got down to it at 13!! :ohmy:

I want to know who the two tarts are who got down to it at 13!! :ohmy:

they are probably MALE :w00t:

they are probably MALE :w00t:


Yes I thought that too.........

they are probably MALE :w00t:


No, if they were they'd be bragging about it.

No, if they were they'd be bragging about it.

good point Patsy :laugh:

So come on then, who was it, tell Auntie C.....

Can boys do it at 13? I reckon it's more likely to be girls.

Hmmmmm .... one of them was me :ninja: He was older than me and declared undying love ... and i believed him, silly cow that i was. Dont hate me :bag:

Dont hate me :bag:

As if we would Bonnie! :hug:

I'm afraid I was a tart at 13 too.

What could I do?

I lived on an estate and hung out with older boys who were always taking the mickey because I hadn't lost my "cherry". They even had a little song they used to sing about it. Swines.

So, when Susan, who lived a few doors up the road, was a year older than me, and whose folks had the street's first colour telly, offered to relieve me of said cherry, who was I to say no? Especially as it meant being able to watch Star Trek in colour.

I was incredibly nervous, very nearly didn't get "wood" and she had to take me through the whole process step by step. It was like painting by numbers, only I was blind, the numbers on the canvas had been erased and all the paint pots muddled up.

Did I enjoy the experience? No. Do I wish I had waited? Yes.

In fact it put me off girls for a bit because I was still at that transitional age where you think girly parts are a bit sticky and yucky....and this only confirmed all my worst fears.

But when the hormones had well and truly kicked in properly I was soon a walking erection machine and there was no stopping me after that....

Wey hey Norm .... after our confessions someone else has joined the '13 club'.

Im like you though Norm and wish i had waited. It was a horrid experience, and when the bloke had his way with me (after declaring love and looking at rings .... hey i was 13 and guilable) he dumped me :ohmy:

I don't think it would be right to use the expression "lost our virginity" in connection with Mrs Blink & I. Definitely a mutual exchange rather than a loss, and a wonderful experience for both of us.

Sorry, blink. No offence, but.......... :sick:

Er... why?

I was 16 and it was fun. We laughed all the way through it - romantic it was not (particularly when we nearly fell off the bed). Still, I wouldn't change it for the world. It did break us up though, because I think after that we kinda realised we didn't really have a romantic thing going, and we've been friends ever since.

I didn't bleed at all, and although it was a little uncomfortable at first, that soon passed.

I had friends who lost it at around 13, but also those who waited until 19, and 21. I just did it when I thought I was ready. I actually surprised myself by waiting that long :D

I was 18 ( i feel old compared to everyone else!!) and it was with my college boyfriend at the time... it was nice but it was like something we more felt we had to do then that we actually took the time ton enjoy it if you know what i mean!..

I was fourteen

it was her first time to

However, I was the one that they all looked up to around my way

I was the leader every one assumed I had already done it lodes of times I was a stud to them but in reality I was a virgin



I was very caring and gentle I had read many books on the subject the kind with diagrams not pictures
it was very good just what I was expecting

We stayed together for about two years afterwards

However, I did have to lie to the gang and when asked how it was I had to say I have had better like the big man I was (What a Tit I know)

But you live and learn

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Oh, I was a late-starter compared to everyone here, I was 19 and it was with my first serious boyfriend. It wasn't planned as we had both been at his football's dance, where he won Player of the Year and Player's Player of the Year. We couldn't get a taxi home, so his coach said we could come home with him & his wife to phone a taxi. We got lost on the way home and ended up having to climb over this really high fence. I was wearing a shortish skirt and high heels, not the best atire for an obstacle course - anyway as I was climbing over the fence my skirt got caught in the fence and there I was dangling from this fence flashing my knickers and my lacy hold-ups! My b/friend instead of rushing to my aid practically peed himself laughing whilst his coach covered me up with his jacket whilst his wife tried to free me. We eventually got home, phoned a taxi but it was going to be at least 2 hours so Mr & mrs Coach said we could stay at theirs for the night. We were put in seperate room though, but he crept through during the night and hence-forth I lost my virginity. Idid feel a bit guilty at taking advantage of Mr & Mrs Coach's hospitality, luckily there was no blood on the sheets and we did use condoms, I think he had been carrying them round for sometime just waiting for the right moment! ;) It was going to happen sooner or later, and it was kinda nice and we did spend another 2 years on and off together but I ended it when he asked me to marry him. Just couldn't bear the thought of getting married that young and having sex with just one man! :ohmy:

btw - your first time - how many of you had protected sex? :ninja:

btw - your first time - how many of you had protected sex? :ninja:


It was a whip-it-out-and-wipe-it jobee. Silly, but then when I was a kid buying the old condominiums wasn't easy.

I was too young to get 'em from machines in pub toilets, and no way was I going to ask for "something for the weekend" at the barbers!

It was a whip-it-out-and-wipe-it jobee.

I'm speechless, absoutely speechless! .... you're supposed to use your willy!!!

Awww, I think Blink's definition was lovely.

Unfortunately my first time wasn't quite so memorable because I just realised I got my age wrong by two years.

Thank you Nox! :wub:
Sorry, blink. No offence, but.......... :sick:Still awaiting my explanation. :p

........... erm........ I'm Patsy's "friend" and she's had to go away for a few days, but she says she's really, really sorry and won't do it again..... :bag:

Mmm Eighteenth birthday with Laurie, a young soildier. I was very drunk and thought why not? It was an awful lot of fumbling (perhaps the drink had something to do with that). I went out with him for about two months after then he got posted to Northern Ireland. I wish I had'nt done it with him. After he got back from Ireland he wanted to get back and was quiet pushy. Fortunetly another ex who had just got back from Bosnia was in the pub that night and stepped in and asked me and the girls I was out with if we wanted to go to a pub in town with his crowd to get away from Laurie.

Mmmm Billy - now thats the boy I should have lost it to. I once stopped the night up the block - rather drunk and he was the perfect gentleman.

Romantic story here
When he went to Bosnia he said we should split up because he knew a long distance relationship would be hard. Anyway he got out there and realised he made a big mistake. So he asked a colleague of my dads who was out with him what address should he write to to say he was sorry. So him, his whole section and my dads colleague sat down and wrote me a letter. Four months later dads colleague comes back and is joking about me getting bluies, which I did'nt understand at all having received no bluies. So the night in the pub that Laurie is making a idiot of himself i bump into Billy, who was a little odd with me. After a few pleasantarys he asks why I did'nt reply? and when I say I never received it he got half his section to vouch for him having posted it. Anyway we went out for two months and we got posted back to UK. I often wonder what would have happened had I received that letter - definately not the Laurie thing. I heard a few years ago that Billy got married and was doing really well for himself.

Mmm "the pasts a foreign country they do things differently there".

..and the horrible horny boy yurned into a ......... :bye:
Come to think of it, I haven't changed! :w00t:

Come to think of it, I haven't changed! :w00t:

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Oh Becks, what a bitter sweet story, but you never know he might be a right plonker now!

My first experience was with someone who seemed very mature at the time, being all of five years older than me. I'm afraid to say my memory of it is vague to say the least. However I do remember being smuggled into a block on the local RAF camp, of having the TV on to drown out any sound - girls were strictly off limits in the living quarters. Dennis Waterman was singing 'I could be so good for you' as Minder droned on in the background. I also remember having to exit through the window (fortunately ground floor), and that's about it. Romantic huh?

Ah! So you're that Nox!

Shsssssssh Dabster :ninja:

Am glad I have these memories - In fifty years time I can tramatise my grandkids by telling them about when I was young......... if the thought of parents having sex was bad, imagine thinking about your grandparents :shocking:

my first time I was 17, he was 28, I fancied him awfully but he was truly truly dreadful between the sheets...........the first time was nasty, painful & definately not to be repeated as far as I was concerned, even with nothing to compare him to, I knew it was cack. He wanted a repeat performance 1/2 hour later.....................I FELL ASLEEP!!! To this day, I still remember jerking awake to find him still going............ :shocking:

I was 15 and it was with a lad of 16 in a badminton court. Class.

I always thought bleeding was a myth.

I did too Maxine - think bleeding was a myth, but after reading some of these stories I'm starting to think I was pretty lucky.

Definitely not a myth! I was horrified :ohmy: